Many pregnant women are difficult due to too much stress on the surrounding conditions. At least, that's why there are allegations of some women who do not also blessed with a baby. There have been many studies conducted to prove it. Recent research that finally managed to prove: that women have a higher stress enzymes likely to be fertilized in the fertile period tended to decrease 12 percent.
High stress levels can damage the chances for women to get pregnant, so the warning from researchers. 12 percent figure was small, but this mainly occurs in women at age late 30s the new planning first pregnancy. Generally, women in this age range fertility begins to decline due to age.
According to a study conducted at Oxford University and the U.S. National Institutes of Health, in women with problems in the conception, found in blood levels of markers of stress hormones (called alpha-amylase) that are consistently higher.
"This is the first study to find whether the size of stress may be associated with the chances for women to get pregnant that month," said Dr Cecilia Pyper, from the National Perinatal Epidemiology Unit at Oxford University. "Women with high levels of stress markers tend not successfully fertilized."
Research published in the journal Fertility and Sterility is done by testing saliva 274 women aged 18-40 years, who were all planning a pregnancy, but not more than three months.
Researchers analyzed the levels of cortisol (stress hormone) and alpha-amylase enzyme, which is a marker for adrenaline. Researchers conducted tests on the sixth day of the menstrual cycle of the respondents for a total of six cycles, or until the woman is pregnant. Fertility monitors are used to identify ovulation and make sure the pregnancy with pregnancy testers.
From testing, it appears that cortisol does not affect the chances of getting pregnant. But for women with high levels of alpha-amylase highest hamilnya reduced 12 percent chance for each day from the days of the most fertile, than those with levels of alpha-amylase its lowest.
"Regardless of the day or the frequency of intercourse during the fertile period, women with alpha-amylase concentration was higher likely will not lead to conception than those with lower concentrations. Stress significantly reduce the chances of conception, "said Dr Pyper.
He said, is not clear how stress hormones can affect fertility. However, this possibility can reduce blood flow in the oviduct, which can affect eggs or sperm transport.
So, suggestions that the couple should be free of stress if you want to have children, it should be considered. "In some people, quite relevant to perform relaxation techniques, counseling, and even approaches such as yoga and meditation," added Dr Pyper. According to him, a kind of therapy is also able to increase the chances of successful pregnancy with IVF method.
Fertility specialist, Dr Allan Pacey, said that the discovery is really exciting. However, although the couples are generally already know that they should be relaxed if you want to have a baby, the reality is not easy to do so.
"My advice really, couples do not have to worry about the fertility schedule, and do not seek pregnancy it becomes a chore. That's what can make you stress! "
Source: The Daily Mail, Editor: Earl, kompas.com

Joana Rocha Pauleta, MD, and colleagues conducted research on the activities of the pregnant woman about her pregnancy. They conducted a survey of 188 women who had just given birth at a hospital. The women who made these respondents live a healthy pregnancy and risk free. This is the result of research conducted on women aged between 17-40 years old:

   1. Nearly a quarter of women are afraid that having sex will harm the baby, but only 3 of the respondents who ultimately delaying intercourse until the baby was born to do. Two of 3 women are doing other acts of sexual intercourse. Which one, really put off having sex.
   2. 80 percent of women reported sexual activity in the third semester. As many as 39 percent said they did copulate in the final trimester of pregnancy.
   3. The frequency of sexual activity that women did not decline for most women until the final trimester of pregnancy, although 10 percent said that sexual activity is more frequent in the final trimester than the first and second.
   4. Almost all women are active during pregnancy do copulation; 38 percent engage in oral sex, 20 percent reported masturbating, and 7 percent of anal sex.
   5. Approximately 39 percent of women said they felt the same sex drive as before they become pregnant. While a third of the women felt no sebergairah before pregnancy.
   6. Half of the respondents said that sex during pregnancy as great before they become pregnant. While 28 percent said not too satisfactory.
   7. As many as 41.5 percent of the women said they felt no longer as attractive or sesensual before pregnancy. However, 75 percent of the women do not feel unwanted, meaning they feel their husbands are still receiving them.
   8. About three-quarters of respondents said they did not experience sexual problems, the rest felt experience. Problem is, among others; arousal is reduced, painful sex, hard orgasm, difficulty melubrikasi intimate areas. In addition, only 11 percent of these women say they feel the need to talk with your doctor to have sex during pregnancy.
Pauleta and his colleagues say, this problem is related to the cultural background of the women. In Pakistan and Nigeria, the women believe that intercourse during pregnancy can help to widen the vagina and ease of exit of the baby. While in Iran, most women believe that sex during pregnancy can make baby blind or damage the hymen infant child (if female).
Irwin Goldstein, MD, director of the sexuality in San Diego's Alvarado Hospital, said, "Having sexual intercourse would not have a negative impact on pregnancy. However, many couples feel uncomfortable pregnant wife having sex for fear of hurting her baby. This is a false vision and need to be taught further. "
Source: WebMD, kompas.com, Editor: Nadia Felicia

The clitoris is not the eyes of a "switch" or "the" pleasure women. The men, understood flirting technique, fun, and make them beg for more great sex action.
"You can not just go, then get a climax. You must pass a series of complicated to arouse her passion, "said Rebecca Chalker, author of The Clitoral Truth, as quoted Menshealth.
Chalker stressed, the nerves of the clitoris is sensitive enough so that through it at half the foreplay would be detrimental to both of you.
"Just above the tip of the clitoris there are areas of pleasures. Try to stimulate the technique in this tip with your outstretched fingers, then massage the skin on both sides of her vagina in a scissors movement, "he advised.
Moving to the middle
He teased deeper with your fingers, and occasionally rubbed with a lubricant Miss V in motion up and down.
Try the following techniques, position yourself in between her legs and use the palm of your hand to cover her vulva, keep your fingers spread out on the mound Miss V is (as if you are holding a basketball.)
Moving directly
Let him feel comfortable with clitoral stimulation, replace the palm of the hand with two fingers on the tip of her clitoris.
"Once fully aroused, he became more excited as you. Then, increase the pressure until you find the spot that 'sweet', "says sex expert Susie Bright.
Stimulate the deeper parts
You can continue the stimulation of the inner labia. Try this technique, use your fingers or toys to stimulate the labia from the clitoris, which is located along the walls of Miss V shaped like a chicken claw in the corner around 10:00 and 14:00.
Do it together
A woman's blood to flow freely through its network of Vagina after orgasm, making the repetition of pleasure much easier. Try the following techniques, from behind, sudutkan your penis just below the walls of Miss V. In the missionary position, keep the pressure on the most sensitive place in the lower abdomen with a way to promote your hips slightly forward

SEKS bukan sekadar aktivitas keseharian manusia. Lebih jauh dari itu, para peneliti terus mencari penemuan baru yang mengajarkan kita banyak hal soal seks dan bagaimana seks memengaruhi kehidupan kita.
Livescience mengutip beberapa penemuan seks mengejutkan.
Masturbasi bisa menyakitkan di awal
Pria yang sangat aktif secara seksual mulai usia 20-an dan 30-an—terutama mereka yang sering masturbasi—berada pada risiko tinggi untuk kanker prostat, kata para peneliti di University of Nottingham. Tapi, risiko tersebut menurun seiring pertambahan usia, dan begitu ia berusia 50 tahun, bahkan tingkat kecil dari aktivitas seksual bisa membantu melindungi dirinya dari penyakit kanker prostat.
Seks tak kenal usia, pada sebagian orang
Lebih dari tigaperempat manula masih melakukan hubungan seks. Sebuah studi yang dipublikasikan New England Journal of Medicine pada 2007 menemukan bahwa lebih dari separuh orang berusia 75-85 tahun melaporkan melakukan hubungan seks setidaknya dua kali sebulan.
Pria berusia lebih panjang secara seksual daripada wanita
Pria memiliki masa hidup lebih pendek daripada rata-rata wanita, tapi ketika datang pada harapan hidup secara seksual, pria memiliki keuntungan. Pada usia 55 tahun, rata-rata pria bisa menikmati aktivitas seksual hingga 15 tahun ke depan, sementara rata-rata wanita hanya 10 tahun.
Rasa bersalah tidak bergantung pada jenis kelamin
Pria tidak merasa bersalah ketika terlibat perselingkuhan seksual, sementara wanita merasa lebih buruk setelah melakukan perselingkuhan emosional. “Ketika seseorang menganggap satu bentuk perselingkuhan memikili dosadari bentuk lainnya, maka ia akan merasa sangat bersalah saat melakukannya,” kata peneliti Maryanne Fisher, profesor di St Mary’s University di Halifax, Kanada.
Seks dan kebahagiaan berjalan seiring
Wanita yang puas secara seksual lebih bahagia, tanpa memandang usia. Ini belum diketahui apakah hubungan seks yang membuat mereka bahagia atau jika wanita bahagia cenderung lebih sering berhubungan seks.
Tapi, Susan Davis dari Women’s Health Program di Monash University, Australia, menunjukkan bahwa kurangnya libido bisa memengaruhi kepercayaan diri wanita serta hubungannya. “Mereka tidak merasa baik tentang dirinya sendiri,” tegasnya.
Pembesaran Mr P bisa berhasil
Menurut sebuah studi dari University of Turin, membesarkan Mr P mungkin memang bisa berhasil. Sebab, merek tertentu secara bertahap mampu membesarkan Mr P sepanjang waktu sekitar hampir satu inci.
Aroma seks
Aroma tubuh pria bau berbeda ketika dia terangsang. Dan, wanita bisa membedakan antara bau keringat seksual dengan bau keringat karena hal biasa, menurut sebuah studi dalam The Journal of Neuroscience.
sumber: Fitri Yulianti – Okezone

Vibrator dikenal sebagai alat bantu seks yang banyak digunakan oleh wanita untuk menambahkan kenikmatan seksual. Tapi tahukah Anda mengapa vibrator banyak disenangi orang khususnya wanita?
Vibrator merupakan perangkat elektronik yang menghasilkan getaran untuk meningkatkan gairah seksual terutama pada wanita. Meski lebih sedikit, pria juga sering menggunakannya bahkan beberapa produk kondom sudah dilengkapi dengan vibrator.
Dengan vibrator saraf-saraf sekitar vagina yang aktif semakin banyak yang membuat perempuan mudah orgasme. Vibrator memberikan sensasi langsung dan kuat terhadap 8.000 ujung saraf di mahkota perempuan. Daerah ini seringkali tidak cukup mendapat perhatian selama melakukan seks.
“Bagi seorang wanita, mengalami orgasme paling mudah bila menggunakan vibrator,” tulis Emily Nagoski dalam bukunya The Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms, dilansir Foxnews.
Menurut Nagoski, alasan banyak orang menyukai vibrator adalah karena getaran mekanik yang diberikan lebih intens dari apapun, termasuk tangan, lingga (sex toy), lidah atau rangsangan organik lainnya.
“Lebih banyak stimulasi berarti lebih banyak gairah, sehingga orgasme pun lebih mudah dan lebih cepat tercapai,” jelas Nagoski.
Bahkan, Kinsey Sexual Health Institute pun merilis hasil penelitian yang menunjukkan manfaat kesehatan yang luar biasa, baik secara fisik dan mental dengan menggunakan vibrator.
“Bahkan wanita tak hanya bisa menggunakan vibrator sendirian, tetapi juga dengan suaminya. Ini bisa menambah keintiman dalan berhubungan seksual,” jelas Nagoski lebih lanjut.
Namun, menurut Nagoski, banyak pria yang merasa ‘terancam’ bila pasangannya lebih suka menggunakan vibrator atau bahkan menjadi pecandu vibrator.
“Dengan vibrator wanita hanya memerlukan beberapa menit untuk orgasme. Jadi sebenarnya ini berita bagus baik bagi wanita maupun pria. Dengan vibrator pria dapat bertahan selama yang dia suka, tapi bukan berarti wanita tak mengalami orgasme,” jelas Nagoski.
Nagoski menjelaskan, kebanyakan posisi seks tidak memberikan rangsangan langsung pada klitoris, yang sangat penting untuk orgasme wanita. Padahal orgasme wanita memerlukan rangsangan klitoris yang persisten (terus menerus). Nah, kemampuan inilah yang ditawarkan dari vibrator.
“Ini memberikan keuntungan bagi wanita dan pria. Jika Anda masih gugup mencoba vibrator, berbicaralah dengan pasangan tentang hal ini,” saran Nagoski.
Dapatkah vibrator bikin kecanduan?
Pakar seks dan penulis buku seks Dr Yvonne K. Fulbright mengatakan tidak ada yang salah dalam menggunakan vibrator dalam melakukan hubungan seks.
Wanita yang menggunakan vibrator umumnya mengaku waktunya lebih efisien dan bisa mencapai kenikmatan seperti orgasme serta tidak membuatnya patah semangat karena sulit mencapai orgasme saat berhubungan intim.
Untuk menghindari kecanduan vibrator, Dr Yvonne menyarankan perempuan jangan menjadikan ini sebagai kegiatan rutin. Ubahlah cara penggunaanya misalnya dengan menggunakannya di tangan yang bisa membantu mengistirahatkan tangan dan hindari berfantasi yang berlebihan.
Dr Yvonne mengatakan jangan sampai alat bantu seks membuat wanita cenderung memilih masturbasi daripada bersama pasangannya karena itu tidak sehat untuk hubungan mereka nantinya. Menikah lebih sehat daripada melakukan seks sendirian.
Merry Wahyuningsih – detikHealth

Benarkah pria tak pernah berhenti memikirkan seks? Otak pria memang menunjukkan betapa besarnya faktor ini dalam pikiran pria. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan, pusat dari kehidupan seks manusia adalah bagian otak yang disebut hipotalamus. Selain mengatur kehidupan seks, hipotalamus ini juga berperan serta dalam mengatur emosi, denyut jantung, dan tekanan darah.
Dan siapakah pemilik hipotalamus terbesar? Jawabnya adalah kaum pria. Bukti-bukti juga menunjukkan bahwa hormon testosteron yang dimiliki pria 20 kali lebih besar volumenya dibanding yang dimiliki wanita. Ditambah dengan hipotalamus yang besar, tidaklah mengherankan jika nafsu berahi pria tergolong liar.
Karena itu, konon, pria dapat bercinta kapan saja dan di mana saja. Tak salah bila hasil survei Kinsey Institute menyimpulkan bahwa 37% pria di dunia ini memikirkan seks setiap 30 menit.
Ibarat kompor, dorongan seks pria bagaikan kompor gas, sementara wanita lebih mirip tungku elektrik. Pria hanya cukup pemanasan sedikit untuk bergairah, sementara wanita perlu foreplay yang panjang untuk membangkitkan gairah kewanitaannya.
Banyak humor diciptakan orang untuk menunjukkan betapa pentingnya seks bagi seorang pria. Mungkin Anda juga pernah membaca lelucon di bawah ini.“Bagaimana caranya memuaskan seorang wanita?”
Jawabannya, “Penuh perhatian, memeluknya, memercayainya, melindunginya, membetulkan peralatan rusak, berempati terhadap perasaan-perasaannya, memberi pujian, memberi dukungan, menelepon setiap hari, mengantisipasi kebutuhan-kebutuhannya, menyenangkan hatinya, menemaninya ketika berbelanja, memanjakannya, menggodanya sesekali, dan membuatnya tertawa.”
Lantas, bagaimana caranya memuaskan seorang pria? ‘Tanggalkan saja busana Anda!” Namanya juga humor, tentu saja Anda tersenyum-senyum membacanya. Soal kebenarannya? Hmmm, mungkin lebih baik tanyakan pada kaum pria di sekeliling Anda.
Namun, humor ini juga menunjukkan bahwa ketika wanita banyak memikirkan berbagai hal, maka kaum pria lebih terfokus pada satu hal saja, yaitu seks. Bukan berarti pria tidak memikirkan hal-hal lainnya. Jangan lupa, dalam bisnis dan politik, mereka memegang banyak posisi tertinggi. Namun, seperti kata para ahli, bila memikirkan lawan jenis, sekslah yang berperan amat besar.
Mengapa seks begitu penting peranannya bagi pria? Berbagai literatur menyebutkan bahwa pria mengeluarkan tekanan yang membebaninya melalui klimaks saat bercinta, dan menggunakan seks untuk mengekspresikan kebutuhan emosional mereka.
Dua hal itulah yang membuat kejadian-kejadian ini menjadi sesuatu yang biasa terjadi. Misalnya, pria langsung tidur usai mencapai puncak. Hal ini karena pria selalu membutuhkan waktu untuk memulihkan diri setelah menjalaninya. Waktu itulah ia tidur untuk memulihkan diri. Nah, setelah mengetahui hal ini, mungkin Anda bisa lebih maklum terhadap perilakunya.
sumber: vivanews.com, Petti Lubis, Mutia Nugraheni

Setelah berhubungan seks, pria cenderung ingin makan, merokok, atau ingin langsung tidur. Sementara itu, perempuan tentu malah beringsut ke kamar mandi seusai bercinta karena ingin membersihkan diri (buang air kecil setelah berhubungan intim bisa menurunkan risiko infeksi saluran kemih) atau ingin ngobrol dulu sambil saling membelai. Kecuali, Anda memang sudah sangat mengantuk sehingga langsung tertidur.
Kenyataannya, ada sebagian perempuan yang memang tidak bisa langsung tertidur setelah bercinta. Abby Spector, kolumnis seksualitas yang juga lulusan Feminine/Gender/Sexuality Studies di Wesleyan University, mengungkapkan beberapa alasan yang menyebabkan hal itu.

1. Saat berejakulasi, pria melepaskan hormon-hormon senyawa kimia dalam otak. Banyak jenis hormon yang dilepaskan saat ejakulasi, seperti prolaktin, vasopressin, dan oksitosin, bisa menyebabkan mereka puas, tenang, dan mengantuk.
2. Kebanyakan perempuan justru merasakan hasrat lagi setelah dirangsang secara seksual. Hal ini bisa menyebabkan Anda ingin terus bercinta. Bila hasrat tak tersalurkan, maka Anda merasakan ada dorongan energi. Energi inilah yang lalu harus disalurkan, entah dengan membersihkan diri atau dengan membuka laptop lagi.
3. Pasca-berhubungan seksual, pria akan mengalami fase pemulihan yang membuatnya tidak memungkinkan untuk mendapatkan orgasme kedua. Hal itu sama halnya dengan ketika Anda baru menyelesaikan “satu babak”, tetapi pasangan tak bisa langsung ereksi lagi. Penis pria akan menjadi hipersensitif Melakukan stimulasi seksual justru bisa membuat penis terasa sakit. Perempuan, untungnya, tidak mengalami fase pemulihan ini. Ruginya, bila Anda masih menggebu dan ingin melanjutkan ke sesi berikutnya, Anda hanya bisa gigit jari.
4. Intercourse yang bisa menghasilkan orgasme lebih sering terjadi pada pria daripada wanita. Belum lagi bila pasangan keburu ejakulasi sementara keadaan Anda masih nanggung, mana mungkin Anda bisa tidur sesudahnya? Sayangnya, banyak pria yang tidak menyadari rasa antiklimaks pada perempuan ini.
5. Pernah menatap wajah pasangan yang memerah dan berkeringat saat bercinta? Apakah hal itu membuat Anda jadi bertanya-tanya, mengapa perempuan tidak merasakan ketegangan atau rasa intens yang sama saat berhubungan intim? Pria tampaknya memang harus mengerahkan lebih banyak energi daripada wanita. Itu sebabnya mereka lebih cepat tertidur sesudahnya, sedangkan kita masih termangu-mangu ingin dipeluk atau disayang.

Lalu bagaimana cara mengakali bila Anda justru merasa segar bugar setelah berhubungan seks?
Mungkin Anda bisa mencoba morning sex. Selain tubuh masih segar, sesudahnya Anda masih merasakan dorongan energi yang kuat untuk mengawali hari.
Sumber: Shine, kompas.com, Editor: Dini

DI ANTARA beragam posisi bercinta yang berbahaya, bersanggama yang dilakukan dengan posisi berdiri yang paling berbahaya. Mengapa?
Itu disebabkan dapat melemahkan lutut dan menimbulkan demam. Persanggamaan dengan posisi miring juga disinyalir dapat menimbulkan encok. Selain itu, bersanggama pada pagi hari sebelum sarapan dapat mematahkan punggung, mengurangi kekuatan, dan melemahkan pandangan.
Menelentangkan diri dan menaikkan perempuan di atas dada sampai air mani keluar dapat menimbulkan penyakit tulang punggung dan penyakit jantung. Apabila air mani wanita masuk ke dalam saluran kencing maka dapat mengakibatkan penyakit kuning yang mematikan.
Bahkan menahan air mani saat keluar dapat menimbulkan membatu dan mengakibatkan hernia.
Banyak bergerak dan membasuh Mr P dengan kuat sesaat setelah bersanggama juga dapat menimbulkan kemerahan seperti yang dijelaskan oleh Muhammad Al-Baz dalam bukunya yang berjudul “Arabic Kamasutra”.
Banyak bersanggama juga dapat merusak kesehatan tubuh. Hal ini disebabkan mani berasal dari sari pati makanan, sebagaimana keju berasal dari sari pati susu. Apabila keju telah dikeluarkan dari susu maka susu tidak lagi memiliki manfaat.
Orang yang gemar bersenggama tanpa didukung dengan mengonsumsi makanan sehat, seperti daging, telur, susu, dan lainnya akan mudah terjangkit penyakit, di antaranya:

1. Tenanga berkurang
2. Pandangan kabur atau bahkan buta
3. Kurus
4. Jantung lemah

Apabila sedang lari, maka larinya tidak akan bisa cepat, apabila mengejar seseorang maka dia tidak akan bisa menyusul orang yang di depannya. Dan, jika mengangkat barang yang berat atau mengerjakan sebuah pekerjaan maka dia akan cepat lelah.
sumber: Dewi Arta – Okezone

Ed Note: This is a condition most often associated with women. Why do some women have difficulty in achieving orgasm? There are a number of reasons why a woman may not be able to achieve orgasm, some physical others psychological. Possible physical issues: inadequate stimulation medication treating another illness injury or accident which affects genital receptiveness conditions which interrupt nerve supply to the genitals Possible psychological issues: stress or anxiety relationship problems depression cultural or religious guilt associated with sex Becoming Orgasmic This provides you with overview of some of the issues surrounding orgasmic difficulty. If you're interested in a more detailed discussion we suggest Becoming Orgasmic. Successful for 95% of women in clinical trials, this video will provide many of the answers you're looking for. What can I do to better my chances? Know yourself Being comfortable with your body is the first step to becoming orgasmic. Explore your beautiful body by yourself and be secure in all your minor flaws. We all have them, why should you be any different? A wonderful first step is to take an evening to yourself and explore your body. Draw yourself a nice warm bath and then let any tension fade away. Next head into your bedroom and lock the door. Take a personal mirror and explore your genitals. Unlike men, women's genitals are hidden from their eyes. So take a moment to see what your partner sees. Explore your beauty. Once you're more comfortable an orgasm will be much easier to achieve. If you've never masturbated before, then this is a good time to start. Allow yourself to totally relax and get wrapped up in the moment. Concentrate on the sensations that feel extremely pleasurable. Remember the techniques you used and teach them to your partner. If you want to explore a greater variety of sensations that can help you achieve orgasm, you can try a toy such as the Rabbit Pearl. The Rabbit Pearl is a multi-faceted sex toy that offers a wide range of sensations. It has a high quality dildo that you can use to find which angle and type of thrusting your prefer as well as two types of vibrations (one clitoral and one internal) for you to explore. You can also sample products such as I.D. Pleasure, which is a high-market lubricant containing L-Arginine. L-Arginine is a non-essential amino acid which, through clinical testing, has been shown to enhance sexual arousal in both men and women. When ID Pleasure is applied to the clitoris, vaginal walls or penis for lubrication the L-Arginine will increase the blood flow to the region, heightening sensitivity. Heightened sensitivity, in turn, naturally results in a greater responsiveness to sexual stimulation. Make sure that you are in the mood You should feel relaxed and comfortable so that you can fully appreciate sexual intimacy with yourself or your partner. In ideal circumstances you should be relaxed and stress free. For many women, the late evening is the worst time to engage in sexual activity. If you're tired and wound up from a hectic day, wait for a relaxed Sunday afternoon when the kids are out of the house. Additionally, if you're angry at your partner, it may not be the best time to engage in sexual intimacy. Communicate with your partner Tell him/her what you find sexually stimulating. Many women can not achieve orgasm from intercourse. This is not a sexual dysfunction, it just means that your partner has to explore what you find most pleasurable. If you're not sure, then you should do some exploring together. Make sure you give feedback and don't be afraid to something "isn't that great.". If the stimulation provided by your partner isn't strong enough, you may want to explore the use of a vibrator. Honest communication will help you achieve orgasm and make your partner a better lover. Be adventurous Oral sex or manual stimulation of the clitoris may be too infrequent for some women to achieve orgasm so an alternative method of stimulation is advised. Vibrators provide the intense stimulation most women need to achieve orgasm. If you've never tried a vibrator before, then why not now? Using a vibrator is a wonderful experience; one you should try.  Those who want to try a vibrator for the first time should try the Waterproof Delight. Explore the entire genital region and find your most erogenous areas. Concentrate on what turns you on the most. If you are frustrated and really want the best device for stimulation of the female genitals then purchase the Eroscillator II Top Deluxe. This device offers women exciting, immensely satisfying orgasms with little or no effort.  In fact, this is the only device endorsed by Dr. Ruth.  Although it's a little pricey - this is the best device for women who need more intense stimulation. Be positive Some women go through a stage of arousal where they are not becoming further excited. Many feel that this is where their arousal will end and that they will not be able to achieve an orgasm. Once a woman believes that she is not going to be able to have an orgasm, that is often exactly what happens. Touch yourself It is okay for you to touch yourself during sexual intimacy with a partner. Self stimulation is encouraged, and often accentuates the feeling of intercourse.

What is hormonal birth control? Birth control can also be accomplished by releasing small amounts of the hormone progesterone into the bloodstream. This has the effect of changing the mucous of the cervix and the lining of the uterus which makes pregnancy unlikely. This section describes the effects of the two most popular hormonal birth controls; Depo Provera and Norplant. How effective are these hormonal birth control methods? Depo Provera and Norplant are both over 99% effective. The manufacturers claim that hormonal birth control does not cause infertility when usage is stopped and that over 90% of past users will be able to conceive a child within 2 years. How are the hormonal treatments administered? Depo Provera is given by injection; while Norplant comes in the form of small rods which are placed underneath the skin around the elbow. What are some of the concerns with Depo Provera and Norplant? Depo Provera was approved for use in the United States in 1992 and there continues to be a controversy over its perceived side effects. Thoroughly research Depo Provera and its side effects before considering using the drug. If your physician or health care professional is unfamiliar with Depo Provera, visit a health care professional who is. A few of the possible side effects of Depo Provera are: potential fertility problems irregular menstrual cycle or no period at all moodiness and depression weight gain hair loss loss of sexual desire cramps, migranes vaginal dryness More on Depo Provera Norplant are small rods filled with hormones placed under the skin. These rods release hormones for 5 years. Women using it have about half the hormone level in the blood as those using the pill. Norplant is also a very controversial form of birth control with many women complaining of significant side effects. A few of the possible side effects of Norplant are: prolonged periods irregular bleeding moodiness and depression weight change hair loss loss of sexual desire cramps, migranes acne More on Norplant Consult with an experienced health care professional before choosing either of these methods.

Before we embark on the journey to pleasurable anal sex techniques, let's for a moment focus on a few things that should be addressed first. While many of us find condoms to be a nuisance, health care professionals highly recommend for a variety of health reasons, that you always use condoms during anal sex. For those of us that hate condoms because of a reduced sensitivity during intercourse, there are several brands that offer thinner condoms to increase sensitivity. We recommend Four Seasons Nude Condoms.   It is also recommended  that a lubricant be used when practicing anal sex.  We generally recommend Astroglide, as its versatile and very reliable. The third item that you might want to have on hand before taking the leap into the pleasures of anal sex is something small to insert, such as a Small Butt Plug, to exercise the muscle and get comfortable with the concept before moving on to the real thing (we'll discuss this technique further as we get into the details below).

Anal sex is not experienced exclusively by gay men; it is a facet of our collective sexual identity which has been explored by previous cultures and continues to be explored today. Men and women of all walks of life enjoy anal sex as an alternative to everyday lovemaking. Its not for everyone, but anal sex may be what you're looking for if you want to try something completely different.
Anal sex is enjoyable because of the rich body of nerve endings in the anus. While people often experience pain when first attempting anal sex, as a person learns to relax, the pain often subsides into pleasure. For men, anal sex also offers stimulation to the prostate, an organ that provides the rush of pleasure during orgasm. Anal sex for many seems like a taboo activity, and much of society still shuns it. But statistics show that roughly 35% of heterosexuals and 50% of the gay community practice anal sex at least occasionally.
Tips for beginners
To prepare yourself for anal sex, the first thing to do is learn to relax. This may include a hot bath beforehand, an erotic massage or even just a good workout. Remember that the sphincter muscles around the anus will not allow things to pass through easily unless you relax and take it slow. Do not start with something the size of a dildo or penis. Start with either: a) your partner's finger or b) Small Butt Plug. The plug provides a unique sensation and many couples consider it an exciting addition to the bedroom. If you're more comfortable with a partner's finger then start with that. The basic principle is to start small and work your way up.
One partner should lubricate or place a lubricated condom over his or her finger. Take the finger and arouse the surface of the anus, perhaps making small circular motions as you go. Always pay attention to your partner to indicate whether or not he or she feels comfortable. Slowly attempt to push your finger (or plug) slightly inside the anus. Do not use force - stop immediately if your partner complains of discomfort. If it is difficult to enter the anus, you probably need more lubrication. The first time you try this, the receiver may feel a bit of pain. Anal sex is not for everyone, and if you feel uncomfortable stop and perhaps try again later. Think of this process as training for later anal encounters. Even a finger can provide intense stimulation when it is inserted in the anus.
Once you have tried penetration with a finger a number of times then you can move towards something that is a bit larger. First you have to decide on what type of anal stimulation that you enjoy. Do you enjoy the movement of a finger, the fullness of a plug, or the feeling of entry and withdrawal? You may wish to proceed by being penetrated with your partner's penis or by using an anal toy. For those who enjoy the feeling of penetration more than motion or vibration, try butt plugs which are designed specifically for this purpose. A butt plug sits inside the anus, and is not generally used for thrusting back and forth. If a plug interests you, we suggest the Big Flirt. This beautiful toy is made of pure silicone and features a graduated design.  The texture is unrivalled.  It's soft but resilient and retains body heat.  You won't find a better plug. We're confident you'll love the feel of this toy.
Anal sex can be a perfectly safe activity as long as you take the necessary precautions. You should remember that your anus and rectum do not have their own natural lubrication nor the kind of elasticity the mouth and vagina enjoy. That is why anal sex must be practiced with care. There are three things that should always be used whenever anal penetration is taking place; lubrication, condoms and common sense. Liberal amounts of lubrication are necessary because the rectal wall can be quite sticky and is subject to tearing and lesions if not kept lubricated. (Our favorite is Astroglide) In addition, the anus and rectum are narrow, so lubrication is needed to press inside smoothly. Condoms are another necessity. Enemas, douches and other cleaners will not be able to get all the germs and bacteria out of the rectum. Not only is anal sex facilitate the transmission of STDs better than any other form of sex, it can also cause urinary tract infections and other bacterial diseases. Latex protection is essential, and can offer additional slickness. Finally, use your common sense. The rectal wall curves and is thin so long, hard objects can tear your insides. Don't wear any jewellery on your hands, and cut your fingernails if you are going to put your finger in someone's anus. Most importantly, respect your body. Don't push the limits and go only as far as you feel comfortable.
The best positions for anal sex depend largely on what stage you and your partner are at in your experiences. Rear entry or the "doggie style" position is the one position most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate most deeply, and may not be the best choice for the beginner. A good starting position is the "spoons" position, with each partner laying on his or her side, one behind the other. This prevents the penetrating partner from going too fast, and allows complete control over penetration. It also brings you closer to your partner, making it easier to judge his or her reactions to what you're doing.
Another position for anal sex is a variation of the missionary position. The receiving partner lays on his or her back while the penetrating partner approaches from on top. The penetrating partner lifts up the calves or shins of the receiver, exposing the anus. This can be an especially intimate position, with both partners facing each other. The ‘top’ partner can masturbate the other and is open to massage and cuddling as well.
Finally, rear entry offers another possibility for anal penetration. This position allows the penetration to be the deepest, and permits the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear entry doesn't offer the kind of intimacy or ease of communication that the other positions do, but for more advanced lovers, can offer the greatest amount of thrusting and penetration.
There are many more positions and techniques to try. Many people discover new and exciting positions through experimentation, and most people find the one that best suits them. Good communication is the key to such discovery, and a manual or video can help as well.
Books and videos discussing back-door lovin' are now widely available. None are better than the Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women. We're warning you, this video is little raunchy at times, but it is one of few videos on the market that tackles the subject with warmth and honesty. Adult stars are lead through this topic by sex educator Tristan Taormino who eventually joins in the action. Lighthearted and educational, this video really delivers.

Historically, the stigma surrounding masturbation has been skewed against women. The Kinsey Report of 1948 – the first thorough study of human sexual habits found that 92% of males reported having masturbated, as opposed to 62% of females. Perhaps the classic Victorian view of the pure and proper lady laid the foundation for the shame and silence that is more associated with female than with male masturbation.
Females tend to start masturbating later in life than men. This might partly be due to the stigma but it may also be due to the fact that the penis is simply more accessible than female genitalia, and males begin handling their genitals as early as toilet training. As females move from a subordinate role in society towards one of equality, they have become more empowered sexually. As early as the late 1900s, feminists began to speak about their sexuality and encouraged women to find out exactly what they like.
The Kinsey Report challenged many other myths surrounding masturbation, finding that "Masturbation was the most important sexual outlet for single females and the second most important sexual outlet or married females, providing 7-10% of orgasms for those 16-40 years." These findings are significant because they tell us that marital status has very little to do with a woman's masturbatory habits.
Other myths include that which compels many women to hide their masturbation from their partners. Masturbation is a supplement to intercourse, not necessarily a replacement, in many healthy sexual relationships. Reassuring your partner of this can prevent possible feelings of rejection and inadequacy. It might be intimidating at first, but allowing your partner to watch you masturbate can be a very powerful and empowering step. Showing them or being able to tell them what you like will help both of you get the most out of your sex life.

The external female genitals are called the vulva. Pubic hair grows on the labia majora or outer vaginal lips; inside are the labia minora, which are pinker and moister. If your own genitals are not familiar to you, you might examine them in a hand mirror while bathing or showering. The clitoris is found where the labia minora join at the top. This highly sensitive pink knob is about the size of a pea and is protected by a hood, which retracts during sexual arousal. Below the clitoris is the tiny opening of the urethra, through which urine passes, and below that is the opening to the vagina.

Masturbation is best when you have plenty of time and when you won't be interrupted. Go somewhere private, quiet and warm. Beyond that, it's completely up to you: some women like to lie on their back, some on their front; some like their legs pressed tightly together, while others like them spread wide apart or propped above the body. Using a lubricant can help while you explore with your fingers or an object such as a vibrator. Experimentation is the key.

Women who need prolonged clitoral stimulation are encouraged to experiment with a vibrator. For some, a vibrator is the only way to reach climax. Women looking for a simple, inexpensive vibrator will want to try the Waterproof Delight. As the name suggests, this vibrator is completely waterproof, allowing you to bring it in the shower or bathtub. Explore your erogenous zones and discover what truly pleases you.
The most common method is to caress and massage the clitoris to orgasm; the clitoris may be covered by skin or partially exposed, so take some time to explore this area carefully. How much and what kind of stimulation works best varies widely from woman to woman, but beginners are encouraged to explore and lightly touch the genital area for pleasure spots, and to stroke and caress these spots as they find them.

Experiment with pressure and speed: many women find the clitoris too sensitive for direct stimulation at first, so you might begin by rubbing the whole vulva before gradually moving to the clitoris with delicate fingers. Combine this stimulation with caressing, massaging and touching of other erogenous areas for maximum pleasure: the breasts, thighs, vaginal lips and vagina itself can all add to the experience.

Some women are able to masturbate by repeatedly squeezing their thighs together and releasing, often with their legs crossed at the knees. The advantages of this are obvious: it can be done discreetly, and it frees up the hands for other things. Contracting the thighs and vaginal muscles often makes clitoral stimulation more intense and pleasurable.
Another popular technique is the "waterfall." Many women enjoy this stream-of-water technique, which is most commonly done in a bathtub with the faucet running, or in the shower with a removable head. Set the water to a comfortable temperature (usually warm) and level of force, and have the water flow directly over the clitoris. This should provide enough pressure to stimulate the clitoris and other erogenous areas to orgasm.

One important note. While vibrators and other stimulators are an excellent way to masturbate, it is never advisable to use household objects. Not only is this unsafe and unhygienic, but a trip to the hospital for removal could be very embarrassing! Vibrators and dildos are safer, more reliable, and almost guarantee orgasm.  Vibrators and dildos are also advised for those women who desire intense, continuous stimulation.  The Eroscillator II Top Deluxe is a top-of-the-line vibrator endorsed by Dr. Ruth.  Any woman experiencing orgasmic difficulty will greatly benefit from this wonderful device. 
When you feel a gathering tension in the vaginal area and a build-up of warmth, orgasm is on the way. Don't let up, as if you stop these sensations will fade and it might be difficult to get them back again. The clitoris will become increasingly sensitive whether you are stimulating it directly or not, and then orgasm will break out with waves of vaginal contractions. Most women like some form of genital contact during orgasm: either continued stimulation by inserting a finger or simply by pressing or holding the vaginal area.

Learning to masturbate is in many ways taking control of your sexuality. It is the best way to learn how to orgasm, and knowing your own anatomy and sexual responses is key to enjoying great sex with a partner. Self-love is safe, natural and healthy, and will keep you in touch with your sexual challenges, needs and desires.

Masturbation has been frowned upon throughout history and in nearly ever culture. In ancient times of high infant mortality and low life expectancy, stigmas about self-love were rooted in the belief that it endangered the survival of the species. Men were also believed to have a finite amount of sperm, and thus masturbation was thought of as wasteful. Of course, the 50,000 sperm men produce per minute are more than enough to go around!
Masturbation was also associated with many physical symptoms; psychiatrist Benjamin Rush called it "self-pollution," claiming that it caused headaches, epilepsy, nosebleeds, memory loss, heart murmurs, blindness, and even psychosis. In the 1800s, Sylvester Graham led a health food crusade based on the idea that sexual excess including masturbation, erotic dreams and intercourse more than once a month was caused by rich and spicy foods. He prescribed a bland and boring diet; the Graham cracker, in fact, is a sweetened version of his invention. Corn Flakes were originally designed by John Harvey Kellogg to promote health and decrease sex drive!
In the Victorian Era it was commonly held that, unlike any decent woman, men had an excess of sexual desire and lust. Extramarital sex, homosexuality, oral sex and masturbation were gravely taboo. This is not to say that this side of human sexuality disappeared, of course; it was simply denied, discouraged and condemned. Masturbation is still forbidden today in certain religions and cultures, and even punished or prevented through castration and female circumcision in some areas of the world. As late as 1940, a pediatric text in the US proclaimed masturbation and any other non-reproductive erotic outlet as harmful to the growth of society.
Today we live in a time of overpopulation, when sexuality is no longer tied exclusively to reproduction. We now know that masturbation does not cause disease; in fact, it is widely believed to promote health and well-being. Most problems associated with self-love today are psychological; many people still suffer needlessly from guilt, shame and feelings of isolation.
The 1948 Kinsey Report showed that intercourse, let alone masturbation, was an activity as much to do with pleasure as it was to do with procreation. It turned many ideologies on their ears and raised a great deal of controversy. If the vast majority of the population had masturbated, then why should anyone be ashamed of it? Though not completely "out of the closet" or accepted across cultural barriers, it is increasingly accepted as a natural, healthy, and fundamental part of human development and sexuality.

ALAT kelamin wanita, sering disebut vagina, adalah suatu benda yang berbentuk “selongsong” yang tersembunyi di dalam tubuh.
Organ intim ini diawali dengan lubang masuk yang berbentuk bingkai dan terdiri atas dua lapis, dari tempat inilah sel bibit laki-laki masuk,dan tentu saja tempat ini juga merupakan tempat keluar dari hasil pembuahan setelah disimpan selama sembilan bulan dalam perut wanita.
Bibir besar merupakan bingkai yang ada di bagian luar dan berbentuk dua bibir yang tebal dan lunak, serta sering ditumbuhi bulu-bulu lebat. Bagian ini biasa disebut labia mayora. Labia mayora berfungsi sebagai bantalan pelindung dari benturan-benturan luar, bentuknya tampak gemuk penuh lemak tebal di bawah kulit. Rambut tebal di daerah ini memang tidak jelas fungsinya, bahkan ada fase “tren”wanita senang mencukur atau mencabut bulu-bulu ini.
Namun, ada juga yang berpikiran,rambut tersebut sebagai daya tarik hingga organ tersebut tampak indah menarik dan sensual bagi pasangan. Adapun di bagian dalamnya, ada dua bibir lunak lagi yang juga terdiri atas dua bagian dan biasanya tidak berambut yang sering disebut Labia minora.
Bibir ini biasanya lebih tipis dibandingkan labia mayora, dan berfungsi sebagai penutup lubang vagina layaknya pintu yang bisa menutup keluar dan ke dalam. Pada tiap wanita panjang dari labia minora ini berbeda-beda,ada yang panjang ada yang pendek sekali. Ada sebentuk organ yang terletak tepat di atas lubang kencing yang juga bisa berereksi karena banyak mempunyai pembuluh- pembuluh kapiler.
Benda ini disebut klitoris atau kelentit yang sebenarnya bentuk dan fungsinya hampir sama dengan penis pada laki-laki,yang bentuknya pada umumnya kecil memanjang seperti biji kacang. Klitoris ini sangat sensitif karena juga merupakan berkumpulnya ujung-ujung saraf sensoris. Sentuhan dan rabaan yang berbentuk rangsangan dapat membuatnya ereksi dan mengirim sinyal ke otot di sekitar vagina untuk berkontraksi dalam prosesnya menuju suatu puncak kenikmatan (orgasme clitoral).
Di antara labia minoraitulah ada lubang yang biasa disebut vagina, bentuknya seperti lorong yang memanjang ke dalam, sedang kedalamannya sangatlah bervariasi. Di sekitar liang vagina ini, ada dua buah kelenjar yang bermuara di sini,yaitu kelenjar bartholini dan kelenjar skene.
Kedua kelenjar itu menghasilkan suatu cairan bening yang tujuannya sebagai pelumas sehingga memudahkan saat penis akan masuk ke dalam vagina.Produksi dari kelenjar-kelenjar ini akan makin meningkat saat si wanita terangsang, baik karena bercumbu maupun karena adanya rangsangan saraf dari otak yang mengalami aktivasi akibat dipacu oleh rangsangan sentuhan atau elusan di sekitar daerah erogen si wanita.
Daerah Erogen
Daerah erogen adalah daerah yang sangat sensitif dan penuh dengan saraf perasa. Bila daerah erogen dirangsang akan dengan cepat meningkatkan keinginan seksual si wanita.
Daerah erogen pada setiap wanita juga berbeda- beda, tapi umumnya ada terletak di sekitar bibir, telinga bagian belak a n g , leher, buah dada, paha terutama bagian dalam, punggung bagian bawah dan tentu saja sekitar alat kelamin. Klitoris merupakan pusat dari bagian tubuh yang erogen.
Saat seorang wanita dicumbu, cairan di sekitar vagina akan meningkat dan menyebabkan vagina basah, cairan yang dikeluarkan oleh kelenjar bartholin dan skene ini bertujuan untuk persiapan saat penis akan memasuki vagina. Lalu berikutnya vagina akan mulai memanjang dan mengembang karena mempersiapkan diri untuk dimasuki (penetrasi) oleh penis lelaki.
Sebesar atau sepanjang apa pun penis lelaki akan dapat diterima oleh vagina wanita karena vagina mempunyai dinding yang berlipat lipat sehingga bisa menyesuaikan diri.Namun hal ini bisa terjadi kalau secara psikologis tak ada penolakan dari si wanita sehingga kondisinya menjadi rileks dan tidak tegang. Kalau kondisi tegang yang terjadi akan berakibat sebaliknya.
Vagina akan mengerut dan menyempit sehingga kadang satu jari pun akan sulit untuk memasukinya. Keadaan seperti ini yang terjadi terus-menerus disebut disfungsi seksual pada wanita atau sering disebut sebagai vaginismus. Sering wanita yang pertama kali melakukan hubungan seksual mengalami keadaan ini sehingga dia merasa tidak nyaman dan akan merasa nyeri saat penetrasi.Namun, keadaan ini biasanya hanya bersifat sementara . Itulah pentingnya mempelajari atau belajar sex education bagi pasangan pengantin baru agar hal ini tidak terjadi terhadap mereka.
Cairan Vagina
Kita tahu, rahim itu mempunyai peranan penting dalam mendatangkan haid, tapi di luar itu vagina pun se-benarnya mengeluarkan cairan- cairan khas dan itu adalah normal, dan ada beberapa bentuk yang bisa dihasilkan. Bagian dari leher rahim pada masa di antara menstruasi seorang wanita selalu mengeluarkan cairan yang agak bening yang berbentuk agak berlendir.
Adapun vagina sendiri juga dindingdindingnya mengeluarkan cairan yang merembes keluar dari pori-pori dindingnya. Umumnya, jumlahnya tidaklah banyak pada keadaan biasa, tetapi pada keadaan tertentu, misalnya pada saat kehamilan atau si wanita mengalami gangguan emosional akan bertambah banyak cairan yang dikeluarkan. Begitu juga saat wanita mengalami rangsangan seksual yang memadai.
Selain dari cairan-cairan yang dikeluarkan di atas, vagina wanita juga masih mempunyai kemungkinan mengeluarkan cairan yang disebabkan oleh kelenjar bartholini yang ada di sekitar mulut vagina,yang sangat mudah terangsang saat terjadinya aktivitas seksual. Cairan yang dikeluarkan oleh kelenjar ini, biasanya bentuknya transparan atau kadang mirip seperti susu dengan sedikit bau yang khas.
Terkadang cairan ini juga tidak berbau, bila dipegang akan terasa licin dan bila mengering agak sedikit berwarna kekuningan. Cairan inilah yang berguna untuk menjaga dan menghindari vagina dari keadaan yang kering yang bisa memudahkan terjadinya infeksi baik oleh bakteri,jamur,maupun virus.
Tanda Adanya Infeksi
Bila terjadi gangguan pada vagina,yang bisa terlihat bukanlah dari banyaknya cairan yang keluar dari vagina,tetapi dapat segera diketahui dari adanya iritasi yang terjadi.Bau yang terasa tidak enak bahkan cenderung busuk dan menyengat, atau terlihat adanya warna yang tidak biasanya. Bila ada iritasi, biasanya akan disertai dengan adanya rasa gatal dan adanya tanda-tanda radang seperti bengkak, memerah pada vagina atau vulva atau juga di sekitar alat kelamin termasuk paha atas.
Bagaimana Infeksi Terjadi?
Hal-hal yang bisa saja menyebabkan keadaan seperti di atas sehingga vagina mengeluarkan cairan yang berlebihan dan tidak normal seperti: Adanya benda asing yang tertinggal, baik disengaja atau tidak disengaja seperti misalnya sisa pembalut, tampon, atau alat kontrasepsi yang tidak dipersiapkan dengan baik.
Benda-benda ini akan menyebabkan vagina akan mengeluarkan cairan yang sangat berlebihan dan biasanya disertai bau yang sangat keras.Keadaan seperti ini baru bisa diatasi kalau penyebabnya sudah dikeluarkan dan vagina dicuci bersih. Terjadinya keadaan iritasi akibat pemakaian zat-zat kimia seperti desinfektan yang ada dalam bak mandi, deodoran vagina,kontrasepsi yang berbentuk cairan atau jelly dan juga berbagai jenis sabun.
Biasanya juga setelah penyebab dihilangkan, keadaan ini tidak akan segera menghilang begitu saja. Terjadinya kematian pada sel-sel di sekitar vagina akibat menopause. Adanya erosi atau pengikisan yang terjadi pada leher rahim karena hubungan seksual yang berlebihan. Akibat adanya infeksi yang disebabkan bakteri, atau karena tumbuh jamur atau akibat infeksi lainnya.(*)

The couple live is one thing that most determines terbinanya sakinah life wa mercy within the family. of course in addition to faith, nasab (lineage) and have few assets (not in the sense matre), beauty and virginity of a girl is highly recommended and decisive in choosing a partner. well here are a few tips doodles to see a girl who is still sacred. hopefully can be beneficial, and this is made tips ikhwans really want to foster home, so do not be misused yes ...
FOUR WOMEN NO CHOICE CRITERIA

   1. A bit of black hair, black eyebrows, black eyelashes, black eyes.
   2. A little white body, white teeth, white palms.
   3. Somewhat kemerah2an lips, cheeks kemerah2an, kemerah2an gums.
   4. Rather was his fist, his chin, while her breasts, sweat fragrant, fragrant smell of the mouth, nose and body.
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And Allaah knows best bisshawab. To be more specific there are a few things to diperhatiakan including:
Forehead
The girl who is still pure, smooth forehead. When intercourse slippery always missing, just that arise twitch (garis2) who sometimes seems sometimes when chatting. Twitch because it was not holy, not the same as facial twitching with age. Holy twitch that has been lost, not so ketara and not so visible, except when it face certain reacted like he was laughing and talking, while twitching because with age is always visible and lasting. Do not be eliminated by any oil, although today there are bermacam2 oil.
But the twitch because of the loss of purity is not easily removed. To make it easier to see the girl still a virgin or not. Consider a married girl's forehead with that yet. Note betul2 necessarily visible disorder. The girl who was not there some twitch garis2 holy arise and curved didahi girl. Note betul2 garis2 because it is not so visible (light). And Allaah knows best.
NOSE
The girl who still sacred or her body has not been touched by man, the tip of his nose reddish color, when touched the tip of his nose looks red. The girl who is not pure red but the red tip of his nose was pale, red color sometimes does not appear, which looks just pale, do not believe try to see the girl's nose tip, merahkan ..? For men who like to destroy the sanctity of women, stripped of his nose, hence called the man a philanderer. Wallohu a'lam
EYE
where it comes from love, from the eyes down to the heart ... ..
We use our eyes to look and see someone, cantikkah, bugarkah, luweskah, etc.. Sometimes we see a beautiful woman on the outside only, but the inside is up, to know she was still a virgin or not try to peek at her eyes. When the bottom of the folded petals and there is little sign of bruising (bruise marks) means that the girl was not sacred anymore, maybe already married. bruises that showed no visible holy sort of black garis2 under the eyelids black disamp ng ى under eyelids look a little wrinkled (twitch). The girl who still sacred berseri2 eyes, no black color, bruising or garis2. When the girl laughed under his eyelids do not have anything, such as wrinkle (wrinkles), striped, etc.. Wallohu knows best. (Who referred lebamnya eyes not because of lack of sleep loh:-D)
BACK
Ridge girls change through 2 processes:

   1. Ridge girls become big because of the hormone.
   2. Ridge became a big girl because male.
Backs who have reached the touch of man will be great, lebih2 have intercourse. Ridge is still a virgin girl, although she still looks pretty fat, because still thick and tense and not lethargic and fell. Just look at her waist, still slim that her waist and back is not great, not plump and chewy on the back. If running back does not waver because the meat is still solid and not soft when held, meaning he is still sacred. For those who had sexual intercourse, her back was contained and large but not thick, appears to fall back, lebih2 when he walks, rocking is not rebound.
Why the back of the girl who had sexual intercourse could fall? While the act of intercourse approximately 90% of the hormone that is in the back will miss pubic concentrated, because at the summit (orgasm), she became strained back.
When finished a strained back intercourse would loosen the original and this causes the back becomes loose and falls. More often the girl's act of intercourse, will increasingly fall back and lethargic, shallow. And Allaah knows best.
EARS
Ear including one senses that can be used to determine if the girl is still sacred or not. In the land of china as a psychic to find out ear disease in a person's body. The girl who is never touched by laki2, ears and looks pretty clean, if the girl had been bitten disetubuhi or ears or be kissed and touched, in automatic form the girl's ear will become more shallow and no longer a little reddish and becomes pale. For girls who are still sacred, but never got the touch man, pale ketara not very. And Allaah knows best.
FRUIT DADA (breast)
The role of the breast is a lot, not just lust seduce men, but the breasts as evidence that she ever touched or not. Boobs girls who have never got a touch, always tense. But if you've got the touch, the breast tension is reduced and slightly enlarged from the original size, more often touched, the more slack. Note the girl when walking or running, and waving bergerak2 fall (down) and once berbuai mean tension is gone. If you have not got a touch, although berbuai breasts while running but not too melambai2 crib mean tension is still there.
Putting breasts that never got a touch to be a long and terjojol (out) a little from its hiding place. Breasts that always got squeezed will be larger, and do not accuse her fruitful big chest got squeezed. Therefore, large breasts get squeezed and the large natural because it is different.
Breasts squeezed into a big hit but not tense. While large breasts natural karna always tense and when walking was not swayed, if the taxable remas-buai sway swayed like an elephant ear, berbuai left, right, up, down sometimes melambung2 when the girl was walking or running.
Why breasts when taxable touch could fall and what the relationship with muscle palms breasts? At the time the breast is held or diremas2 girls feel the passion, when excited hormon2 will fill the space so that the breasts become tense. Once passionate breasts and loosens tense muscles relax making as well. Taxable breasts sucking nipples become swollen, which has not got pink nipples suction. Had she not pure, her breasts hanging down like a papaya fruit dangling on the tree. On the breasts do contain a thousand question marks, including knowing the woman who already had children or not. Watch her nipples if the tension is mendangak menghala upwards to the top means the woman had given birth, if her nipples were always out and mendangak terjojol upward means the woman had sexual intercourse, but has never been childless. But the breast is often regarded as a symbol of sex, most women and men love breasts while doing sexsual relationship, because they can reach orgasm (pleasure) just because stimulation of the breast.
A girl as they become adults, less likely to breast size change, unless the weight gain. Swollen breasts due to pregnancy, breast feeding or the influence of the contraceptive pill is conditional. A good posture will form the breasts appear larger. Try asking, whether he likes her breasts being touched or not? Some women have very sensitive nipples that others do not, they might want to her breasts touched or maybe not. But most women liked the soft touch and a kiss on the breast and also on the nipple. Breasts and nipples will harden when stimulated. That tanda2 most obvious when he was aroused, although not all of this. Other Tanda2 lubrication (pelendiran) in the vagina, reddish in the chest and increases heart rate and breathing. And Allaah knows best.
PALM HAND LINE
Thick-skinned girl and the rough, look at his hands, if the crack (peca veins, which urat2 mrupai crack), not because it may be caused not stand washing materials that contain chemical, means the girl has lost her holiness. The girl who is still pure, soft palms and slippery. If holiness had disappeared, the palms of his hands when the press warnannya not pale red, if in direct pecet menanjal behind. One way again, look at your right hand, if there is a line putus2 the middle means holiness has been lost, if not terputus2 mean there is not yet lost hope of holiness. after seeing the palm of the right hand, his thumb trying gemgam moment kira2 one minute, if when megemgam feel warm and red thumbs when it is released, there is hope still sacred. Note also his thumb, if at all, although there appeared pale warmth means likely Holiness already flying.
Try to hold the little finger, kira2 one minute, then remove, ask how it feels when it is held tightly and released? If he answered no sense, apologize banyak2, chances are he is not sacred anymore. But if he said there is a sense of excitement, his heart berdebar2 or no pain like berdenyut2. Alhamdulillah still seems to be sacred. (Yg ngetes are those laki2)
PALM HANDS FINGER
With jari2lah men who hold and seductive women, as well as women jari2, jari2 is the most fundamental areas to know the girl or not pure. The way is easy, first shook hands, shake hands during remas2lah hand, if mahramnya laki2 not be holding the hand of a girl, it shows little virgin section hands were tainted. When the girl's hands and jari2 in remas2 may mean opportunities to hold another tempat2 wide open. Try jari2 girl in belai2 and in remas2 gently, how the girl's feelings?
The touch of man dijarinya indeed bring a taste of its own ni'mat and lust. The touch of hand magic touch, out by hands will spread to other zona2. The touch of hands was sahdu, if not believe how happy try to walk while holding hands. If you want to know the girl was accustomed to the touch or not, Try to reach out and shake hands with him, for shaking hands Hold her hand gently and try to touch her little finger. When touching the little finger behold the face of the girl, whether she appeared agitated and restless and terperayuh?, If he was surprised and terperayuh means that it is probable that he was still sacred, even if he never berasmara, probably not until tersondol. If the little finger when he touched seemed rilex only, and do not want to talk, it is probable that His Holiness had vanished. Wallohu knows best.
STOMACH
Proverb said let me break in the abdomen do not burst in your mouth, so says the proverb, but a woman's body is not a proverb. If you break her virginity, would rupture the stomach. When the girl had sexual intercourse, then the stomach will be expanded and become a little bloated. Therefore, girls who have never sexual intercourse is still a slim waist and her belly was still flat. Why does the stomach become bloated little? At the moment the girl's act of intercourse, of course, the girl reached the peak (orgasm), in time to the peak of the girl could not stand and hold the stomach. Otot2 the abdomen to hold the summit with a very high durability and strength. That's when it expands and stomach after intercourse perutpun bulge. One more sign of the stomach, if the girl had sexual intercourse, there are long lines from the bottom of the breast to the belly and the navel until kekemaluan. These lines do not occur at all the girls, but if there's a girl to own this line means that he is not sacred anymore. There are some girls who had sexual intercourse have only line from the bottom of the navel until kekemaluan. If the girl is pregnant, the line will be divided into two, look at the pregnant woman's abdomen, there must be a transverse fracture garis2 in his stomach. The girl who is still sacred in general, his stomach is still soft. For those who already had intercourse, the skin of his stomach a little bit rough. There will also become hard to realize because hormon2 and fatty lumps at the bottom of the abdominal wall. And Allaah knows best
HAIR
Hair is the crown of women but also serves to determine the girl's still a virgin or not. The girl who was holy, his hair is neat, fresh look and not rude, while the girl who had lost her holiness, her hair did not look excited. At the time our ancestors first, there might still be a diamalkan until today. When a girl is about to be married, a wedding decorator didahi first hair cut, bent and on the rear left and right ear. Rambut2 this is by them called virgin hair. By cutting this rambut2, they know if she was still a virgin or not. to prove the trial provided one young coconuts that have been punched and the water is not discarded and enter these haircuts. If it floats on the surface rambut2 coconut water means the girl is still sacred. If all the hair was drowned means the girl has not sacred. another way, if d ى when the wind gently inflate the girl's hair and back to the place of origin. Thank God there is hope of her virginity still seems to exist. And Allaah knows best.
Lips
Believe it or not that girl who had kissed her lips more attractive and beautiful. When his lips met lips, they will make the movement of blood will flow kebibir and forming new lips. More often kissed, more beautiful lips too. But there are also girls who have beautiful lips mouth never even kissed. The girl who had never kissed her lips look pink and there is no line inert (swelling) or black around the lips. Lips that never kissed a girl does not look pale and her lips were slippery and wet. The lips that never got kissed would seem sluggish even if only once, and can alter her lips are too rough lines that beautify lips form such as orange slices. If the girl is not sacred anymore, the center of the lips visible crack, as if split in two, breakdown is not so clear, but it seems that really paid attention. There are also saying she can not be pure when she laughed her lips look more bigger than the lower lip not to laugh and looked out of the upper lip. Wallahu'alam.
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(Although rubbed dry lips (disolek) with lipstick, lips remain dry. How wet her lips to cover any prejudice that he is not sacred anymore, apply coconut oil on his lips every morning, let it soak in coconut oil for half an hour's lips. Insha Allah lips girl it looks oily and not inert. Lips are already inert do not spread with coconut oil.
Genitalia.
This course is only known after the marriage. Surface girls who had sexual intercourse, seem inert (bruise), the door unclosed genitalia, a little bit tenuous. If the girl is still virgin, his cock always closed. Actually the lining of blood can be seen directly into her genitals. When the shriveled genitals still means she was still a virgin. If the hole was open a little mean girl is not virgin anymore. Consider the color of her genitals, pubic door if the surface purple, reddish means she is still pure, but if the red color is faded out to be pale, meaning he was no saint lagi.satu again, usually when the first night, the man is usually rather difficult to enter the penis (penis) into her pubic girl. The first time sexual intercourse with a girl who just broke his blood membrane is not satisfactory, because she was not comfortable with the blood that came out on the first night (habitual) and the pain in his cock. So he will not want to linger. To find out selapaut virgin who broke out, try your eye kosentrasikan kedahi your wife, if she means she furrowed in pain, but if he's faking it, rilex lets get ...
Wallahu'alam ..
NECK
The neck is also one place that could indicate she was still sacred or not. When the woman's neck visible twitching, which means she never touched a man. Line kedutnya not like lines because the old twitching, the line of small, shallow and dotted, rather than long lines. If you want to see clearly just wait for the girl's bowed head. Look quickly and carefully.!. when the girl often often carried by men, then the neck there are signs of small black and color dilobang romanya small moist spots. Occasionally the hole was evident dileher chilling, this also means she often touched. If the girl's long-necked (levels), consider the section of his neck, if there are lines that cross veins means the girl is still sacred. If there are transverse lines, instead of the transverse veins, this means that women are childless (never given birth). Wallahu'alam.
Cheek
Women who are not sacred anymore not face radiant, her cheeks are still sacred always exciting and fresh red. If the girl has ever kissed cheeks rosy color will be lost. If it was red cheeks kissed by his father or siblings then no harm to the sanctity of the girl. Look at the girl's cheeks really are no virgins anymore there are transverse lines that are not so clear / visible. However cheek kiss a girl who never got still beautiful, but when it's used to be kissed / touched the man, dimples less deep and there is one line on the curve of dimples. The girl who is still sacred, when the talk around his right cheek and left quickly sweating, and sweat it will come out even though the place is cool. Sweat is probably not nanpak except wipe with a tissue. Take a look at the edges of a girl's ear. Section there is a child's hair soft and smooth. What if the girl is not sacred anymore, the boy's hair will not fall, but still remain, but become hard and even rude. If the wind blown hair boy looked so rough and side cheeks looked a little bit dark, although the girl sweet black. Wallahu'alam ..
"Well you told the woman, she actually created from the rib. And the most crooked part of it. Therefore, if you are forced to straighten it will patahlah it, and if you leave, it will bengkoklah it forever. " (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim). (Adapted from various sources)

Makanan bisa memengaruhi kualitas sperma pria. Jika Anda berencana untuk mengisi kekosongan rumah dengan hadirnya seorang anak, coba jaga asupan suami agar kualitas spermanya tetap terjaga dan hindari makanan-makanan yang bisa merusaknya. Berikut laporan Ana Mantica dalam majalah Eating Well mengenai makanan yang penting untuk kualitas sperma pria:
Buah dan Sayur
Dalam penelitian yang diterbitkan di jurnal Fertility and Sterility pada tahun 2009 dikatakan bahwa jumlah sperma sehat dikaitkan dengan konsumsi nutrisi tertentu. Beberapa nutrisi tersebut dapat ditemukan dalam buah-buahan dan sayuran. Para peneliti berspekulasi bahwa antioksidan dapat meningkatkan kualitas sperma.
Ikan
Menurut sebuah studi dalam di Amerika Jurnal Epidemiologi, omega-3 yang ditemukan dalam minyak ikan dapat membantu pasangan untuk meningkatkan kualitas sperma. Penelitian yang dilakukan oleh University of Illinois menemukan bahwa tikus yang mengkonversi asam alpha-linoleat (ALA) ke dalam DHA omega-3 tampak lebih subur. Meskipun demikian, penelitian ini masih dini untuk memberikan rekomendasi seberapa banyak pasangan Anda dapat mengkonsumsi omega-3.
Hindari:
Cola
Apabila Anda ingin memiliki anak, jangan berikan minuman bersoda kepada pasangan Anda. Sebuah studi pada tahun 2010 di Denmark menemukan hubungan antara mengkonsumsi cola dan berkurangnya kualitas sperma. Para ilmuwan pun melakukan penelitian terhadap 2.554 orang. Menurut laporan penelitian di Amerika Jurnal Epidemiologi, ditemukan bahwa orang yang mengkonsumsi lebih dari 10 kaleng soda dalam seminggu, cenderung memiliki sperma yang lebih sedikit.
Kedelai
Mengkonsumsi kedelai untuk jangka panjang, dapat menurunkan jumlah sperma, menurut penelitian dalam jurnal Endokrinologi Molekuler and Cellular. Penelitian yang dilakukan terhadap tikus jantan menunjukkan bahwa kedelai yang dikonsumsi setiap hari dapat menurunkan 25 persen sperma dari jumlah normal. Para ilmuwan juga mencatat perubahan dalam gen yang terlibat dalam motilitas sperma pada tikus yang mengkonsumsi kedelai. Para peneliti menduga bahwa isoflavon kedelai dapat menurunkan kualitas sperma.

Saya seorang gadis berusia 22 tahun. Saat usia 15 tahun, saya pernah memasukkan jari ke dalam Miss V sebanyak 3 kali. Sepertinya sejak itu saya merasa organ intim saya ini menjadi sering mengeluarkan udara seperti buang gas atau kentut (maaf).
Yang ingin saya tanyakan, mengapa hal ini bisa terjadi? Apakah benar ini ada hubungannya dengan kejadian yang pernah saya lakukan itu? Adakah cara supaya organ intim saya tidak mengeluarkan gas lagi? Saya pernah membaca sebuah majalah dan di sana disebutkan bahwa organ intim perempuan juga bisa mengalami disfungsi. Apakah buang gas dari Miss V seperti yang saya alami termasuk salah satu gangguan tersebut? Terima kasih. – Maya, Jakarta
Dr Luky Satria, SpOG, dokter spesialis kebidanan dan kandungan Brawijaya Women & Children Hospital mengatakan:
Anda tak perlu khawatir. Miss V memang kadang bisa mengeluarkan gas. Dalam dunia kedokteran hal ini dinamakan vaginal flatulence. Biasanya Miss V akan mengeluarkan gas pada saat seorang perempuan melakukan hubungan seksual. Hal ini bukanlah suatu kelainan.
Perlu juga diketahui, gas yang keluar dari Miss V tersebut berbeda dengan buang gas yang biasa keluar melalui anus. Gas yang keluar dari Miss V tersebut tidak berbau. Namun, jika gas yang keluar dari Miss V tersebut mengeluarkan bau, berarti kemungkinan besar terdapat hubungan antara Miss V dan rektum (fistula rektovagina). Hal ini bisa terjadi akibat adanya komplikasi operasi atau karena proses persalinan.
Mengenai kondisi yang dialami Maya, saat Miss V mengeluarkan gas di luar aktivitas seksual sebenarnya merupakan hal yang jarang terjadi. Namun, hal ini tidak ada hubungannya dengan kejadian memasukkan jari ke dalam Miss V yang pernah Anda lakukan di masa lalu.
Meskipun begitu, Anda juga tidak usah merasa khawatir karena hal ini bukanlah suatu disfungsi Miss V. Ada beberapa hal yang bisa Anda lakukan untuk mengurangi kebiasaan buang gas melalui Miss V. Salah satunya adalah dengan melakukan senam kegel yang bisa membantu mengencangkan otot panggul sehingga bisa mencegah masuknya udara ke dalam Miss V.

Anda memiliki ukuran payudara yang kecil? Jangan menganggapnya sebagai kekurangan. Justru dengan ukuran payudara yang kecil Anda mendapat sejumlah keuntungan.
Simak enam manfaat memiliki payudara kecil.
1. Terhindar dari sakit punggung
Wanita yang memiliki payudara besar cenderung sering terkena nyeri punggung. Hal itu karena tulang punggung terlalu berat menyangga payudara. Untuk yang memiliki payudara kecil jarang sekali terkena masalah ini, nyeri punggung pun cenderung muncul karena hal lain dan bukan karena payudara.
2. Lebih mudah menyusui
Beberapa penelitian menunjukkan menyusui lebih sulit jika ukuran payudara cukup besar. Hal ini karena mencari posisi yang nyaman saat menyusui memang agak sulit. Lalu, jika ukuran puting payudara terlalu besar, akan sulit untuk masuk ke dalam mulut bayi baru lahir yang masih sangat kecil.
3. Stretchmark lebih sedikit
Selama kehamilan, payudara akan meregang untuk menampung ASI. Lalu, jika tidak lagi memproduksi ASI, payudara akan kembali ke ukuran normal dan meninggalkan bekas berupa garis-garis kecoklatan. Pada wanita berpayudara besar, garis ini akan sangat banyak, dan pada wanita berpayudara kecil garis ini lebih sedikit dan terlihat samar.
4. Jarang lecet atau terkena ruam
Wanita berpayudara besar seringkali terkena maslaah lecet dan ruam pada payudara. Biasanya karena gesekan kulit yang sering karena ukuran payudara yang besar. Untuk yang berpayudara kecil jarang sekali terkena masalah ini.
5. Lebih mudah olahraga
Dengan ukuran payudara kecil, Anda lebih nyaman saat berlari tanpa merasa ‘terbebani’ dengan payudara yang ikut bergerak. Lalu, saat melakukan yoga dan tengkurap di lantai, tidak perlu merasa sesak karena payudara tidak melebar.
6. Pilihan bra lebih beragam
Pemilik payudara kecil lebih mudah memilih model bra. Sedangkan wanita yang memiliki payudara besar, agak sulit mencari bra atau pakaian dalam yang pas dan nyaman. Jika tersedia pun biasanya harganya agak mahal.

Banyak di antara kita yang sebenarnya memiliki fantasi seksual, tetapi tak mampu mengutarakannya pada pasangan. Padahal, mewujudkan fantasi bercinta akan makin mewarnai kehidupan seks Anda dan pasangan, lho.
Menurut Hilda Hutcherson, MD, profesor bidang kandungan dan kebidanan dari College of Physicians and Surgeons dari Columbia University, New York City, mengembangkan fantasi seksual sangat normal. Ia bahkan mengungkapkan lima jenis fantasi seks yang paling sering dialami perempuan:

1. Berhubungan seks dengan pria lain (khususnya selebriti). Hal ini tidak berarti Anda tidak puas dengan kehidupan seks Anda yang sebenarnya. Anda hanya merasa bergairah dengan pengalaman yang baru. Siapa yang tidak pengin punya pasangan seperti Hugh Jackman. Ya, enggak?
2. Bercinta dengan dua pria. Wow… ini lebih asyik lagi! Jika Anda membayangkan diri Anda tengah berhubungan intim dengan dua pria, artinya Anda ingin dipuja, dimanjakan, bahkan mungkin diperebutkan. Sementara itu, jika Anda berfantasi tengah melakukan threesome dengan suami dan perempuan lain, menggambarkan suatu konsep seksi bahwa ada perempuan lain yang menganggap suami Anda juga menarik.
3. Melakukan dominasi. Fantasi semacam ini memungkinkan Anda terlibat dalam aktivitas seksual yang tabu menurut Anda, tetapi tanpa merasa bersalah. Bila Anda tergolong sebagai perempuan yang penurut, maka mendominasi dalam sesi bercinta mengungkapkan hasrat untuk memegang kendali.
4. Making love dengan perempuan. Bisakah Anda membayangkan dengan siapa Anda bercinta bila Anda seorang lesbian? Namun, tidak, fantasi bercinta dengan perempuan tidak selalu berarti bahwa Anda harus mempertanyakan seksualitas Anda. Hal ini hanya menunjukkan bahwa Anda mengagumi kecantikan atau keseksian wujud perempuan, dan bahwa Anda sangat terbuka mengenai kesenangan.
5. Bercinta dengan pasangan. Apa anehnya berfantasi dengan pasangan kita sendiri? Namun, inilah fantasi paling umum yang dialami perempuan. Biasanya Anda akan menginginkan sesuatu yang tak mungkin terjadi dalam aktivitas seksual Anda yang biasanya, dan menurut Anda akan mengulang sensasi saat pertama kalinya berhubungan intim.

Anda yang memiliki kekasih bertubuh gemuk pasti senang mendengar hasil penemuan terbaru ini. Pria tambun ternyata mampu bertahan lebih lama saat bercinta!
Para peneliti di Erciyes University in Kayseri baru saja menyelesaikan studi yang berupaya mengaitkan indeks massa tubuh dengan performa seksual pria. Studi yang sudah berlangsung selama setahun ini menyimpulkan, pria yang memiliki kelebihan lemak tubuh ternyata bertahan lebih lama dalam urusan ranjang. Pria yang tubuhnya berat mampu bercinta dalam rata-rata 7,3 menit, sedangkan pria yang lebih ramping sudah cukup beruntung bila bisa bertahan 108 detik saja (dalam arti saat melakukan intercourse hingga orgasme).
Alasan di balik fakta tersebut adalah hormon-hormon kewanitaan. Pria dengan kelebihan lemak tubuh menunjukkan tingkat hormon seks perempuan -estradiol- yang lebih tinggi. Munculnya substansi ini akan mengacaukan neurotransmitter pria alami, dan memperlambat laju mereka dalam mencapai orgasme. Ironisnya, semakin tidak maskulin penampilan tubuh mereka, pria gemuk akan semakin menjadi pecinta yang lebih baik.
Perbandingan antara indeks massa tubuh dan performa seksual ini diamati dari lebih 100 pria yang sedang menjalani perawatan disfungsi seksual, dan 100 pria lain yang bertahan lebih lama saat berhubungan intim. Hasilnya, diketahui bahwa pria yang sering mengalami ejakulasi dini umumnya jauh lebih ramping dan lebih bugar ketimbang mereka yang performa seksnya lebih baik.
Penelitian ini memang dilakukan di Amerika, negara dengan penduduk tergemuk ketiga di dunia versi World Health Organization. Diperkirakan 66,7 persen dari populasi yang mengalami overweight ini merupakan pasangan seksual yang hebat.
Meskipun demikian, studi ini memang tidak mengambil sikap apapun terhadap topik ini. Sebab penelitian ini ternyata tidak didukung bukti ilmiah untuk menunjukkan kebenarannya. Malahan, dalam riset global dari situs Onepoll.com tahun lalu, dimana dilakukan survei terhadap 15.000 perempuan dari 20 negara, Amerika menduduki peringkat kelima dari bawah sebagai pecinta yang terlalu kasar. Sedangkan pria Spanyol, Brazil, dan Italia menduduki posisi tiga besar.
Anda tidak puas atau tidak setuju dengan hasil penelitian ini? Anda yang memiliki pasangan ramping maupun gemuk mungkin akan saling berkilah: bukankah yang penting kualitasnya, bukan kuantitasnya? Apapun, sebenarnya yang penting adalah kenyamanan dan kepuasan Anda sendiri saat bercinta dengan si dia. Bukan begitu?